This year I’ve been asking myself more than ever what the purpose of my life is. Why am I here? What is this all about?
I’m aware that these are deep questions we could speak for days about. And we all have different answer. Good news. We all should have different answers as we all have different expectations for life. But this year I’ve been asking myself constantly these questions and creating new expectations for my life. Once we have a certain expectation for our life, we’ll start to attract these experiences into our lives. That’s how our mind works.
You get what you’re looking for. If you’re focused on why you’re feeling stressed, you’ll experience stress. That’s exactly what I was doing in the first few weeks of my consulting job. Doing trainings and workshops in front of different companies every week is certainly not the easiest job. But I changed the question I was asking and directly had a different experience.
I asked myself questions such as: what is this good for? How gifted am I to do this and learn from all these smart people? How gifted am I that they’re taking two days of their precious time and listening what I have to teach? How can I contribute to their work lives and work environment?
By changing my questions, I started feeling grace and gratitude for what I’m doing and had amazing experiences. This was during my work time. During my personal free time, I asked the other questions. That’s why I’m a fan of Coroni as this pandemic/ plandemic as it gives us the opportunity to go deeper inside of us. Finding our purpose has never been easier thanks to the unlimited resources on the internet that can help us and the “extra” free time.
Giving myself time to get to know myself gave and detaching myself from my environment, gave me the opportunity to really answer these questions. Previously, I thought I’m here to make money, to have a great job and provide for my family. But that’s not what it’s all about for me anymore. And all of the sudden I stopped stressing about the small things as I had my bigger picture in life. It makes us feel more alive and gifted for every small thing we’re experiencing as it’s contributing to something bigger.
Wanting to create precious moments in my life, I figured out that contributing to something bigger than myself and being a force for good is what gives me passion for my life. And the fire of passion is what I ignited, feeling more joy and love for life than ever.
Impact over revenue is how I changed my perspective on my career and what I want to do for my living. For me, life is about giving back to those we love, grow and evolve daily and create amazing experiences. This is where I find fulfilment in my life. And the art of fulfilment is something I see many people struggle with. That’s why I invested a lot of time and resources to achieve mine.
The science of achievement is at hands for all of us. If we provide more value than expected, work hard and stay innovating, we’ll experience success in any shape of form. But I don’t want to be only rich in my life. I want to feel wealthy. And wealthy implies loving relationships, great experiences and impact for me. That’s what a beautiful life is about for me.
I don’t want to end my life with regrets. That’s why I trust my intuition and listen to myself in order to find fulfilment and joy for life. Asking myself the previous questions over and over again after indulging myself into my self mastery journey through raising my consciousness were the guidelines for finding the best answers for me. The moment I’ll pass away, I want to be remembered for something. I’m playing for legacy. I know this sounds cheesy, but this higher level thinking has giving me freedom and flexibility on how I go on with my life.
Right now, I’m investing a lot of time in my evolution. Creating life on my terms, knowing what will provide happiness for me. Learning and growing daily so that I can give back to you. I’m thinking about you, you’re reading this for a reason. Maybe it’s now time for you to really think about what you’re here for on this universe? What’s life about? What do you want your life to be about?
I definitely also want it to be more playful and fun. Having the feeling that for a lot of people life is meant to be hard and serious, it’s evident what they’re going to experience in their lives. Does it always need to be so serious? Don’t get confused by the state of fear most people live in. Even a stable job can produce a lot of joy if you’re willing to focus on it. Because remember: where focus goes energy flows.
Think your life as a story or a movie. You’re the actor. What would this movie make unique and inspirational for other people to watch? What do you want to leave behind in this world after you’re gone? As long as your heart beats you can change it. I’d be interested in your answers. We’re in this together. 🙂
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